Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Caroline Ellingford with the following comment:
Phillip was my great grandfathers brother, Phillip was born in Essex and was a publican there and in Ipswich. I be can be of help with information about Caroline and Phillip Ellingford if that is helpful to you. At the moment I am in Australia and return to New Zealand on Friday and will have all of my information on hand. Regards Steven Ellingford